Come with me to get a tattoo!


Once you turn 18, there’s this whole world of “firsts” waiting for you: voting, signing your own paperwork, opening a bank account without your parents… and of course, getting a tattoo. It’s one of those milestone moments that feels like stepping into a new version of yourself.
During spring break, I finally decided to take the leap and get my first tattoo. I had been thinking about it for months, and once it was done, I loved it so much that I knew it wouldn’t be my last. In fact, I already booked another appointment. But I thought I’d bring you along for my appointment, whether you’re already covered in ink or still thinking about getting your first. Either way, come hang out with me while I get tattooed.

Before jumping in, I knew I wanted to be sure, really sure, about what I was getting. Tattoos are permanent (obviously), and I didn’t want to rush the decision or get something just because it was trendy. I spent a couple of months collecting ideas, mostly through Pinterest and Instagram, saving posts that caught my eye and imagining how they’d look on me. Eventually, I settled on something that felt perfect: two dragonflies.
Because I have sensitive skin and have dealt with piercing rejections in the past, I had to be extra thoughtful about placement. I did hours of research, including blogs, TikToks, Reddit threads, and so on. I found that the arms and legs tend to be safer and heal better than areas like the chest or back, especially for people with reactive skin. So I decided to place my first tattoo on my upper right arm.
The days leading up to the appointment were a mix of excitement and anxiety. I wanted to make sure I did everything right to prep. I learned that eating a good meal beforehand and staying hydrated are key, and that you should avoid blood thinners like ibuprofen or aspirin. Caffeine can also make you jittery, so I skipped my usual iced coffee that morning (which was a little tragic, but worth it). I wore loose, comfy clothes that gave the artist easy access to the tattoo spot. Pro tip: think of it like you’re going to the coziest doctor’s appointment of your life.
I went to Fresh Skin Tattoo in downtown St. Cloud and worked with Emily, who is, in short, amazing. The shop itself is small and low-key, but it immediately gave off good vibes. Clean, bright, and not at all intimidating like some shops can be. The people there were welcoming and chill, and it instantly put me at ease.
When I first reached out to Emily, I sent her a few reference photos and gave her a general idea of the size I wanted. The very next day, she came back with a design that was basically perfect. She told me she was totally open to tweaks, but honestly, she nailed it on the first try. She made everything feel collaborative, not transactional, which made a huge difference.
Originally, I had a hard time finding an artist I liked who was local. Most of the ones I saw online were based an hour or more away, and their rates were way outside my budget. Emily was not only close by, but also incredibly affordable, my tattoo was only $120. The quality, professionalism, and communication she brought to the table made the whole thing even better
Okay, let’s talk about the part everyone’s curious about: did it hurt? Short answer, yeah, a little. But not nearly as bad as I expected.
Everyone I talked to had a different answer, so I was kind of preparing for the worst. But in reality, it felt like a cat scratch that just… wouldn’t stop. Annoying, sure. But bearable. I’d give it a solid 4/10 on the pain scale, maybe less depending on the area.
After a while, something strange happened; it started to tickle. I don’t know if it was adrenaline or if my brain just decided to give up on feeling pain, but it stopped hurting and started to feel more like a light vibration. Not unpleasant at all. The whole appointment took about an hour, but the actual tattooing part was only around 45 minutes. It flew by, especially with music playing and random conversation happening.

When I finally looked in the mirror and saw the finished tattoo, I was obsessed. It looked even better on my skin than it did on paper. And as someone who’s had nine piercings and struggled through healing every single one, I was pleasantly surprised by how easy tattoo aftercare was.
Emily gave me simple, clear instructions: wash it gently, keep it moisturized, avoid direct sunlight, and let it breathe. I followed everything to the letter and had zero issues. No redness, no scabbing, no discomfort, just a smooth healing process and a beautiful tattoo that still makes me smile every time I catch a glimpse of it.
Both tattoos turned out better than I ever imagined. I’ve had so many people compliment them, and honestly, getting tattooed has become one of my favorite experiences. There’s something magical about having a piece of art on your body that you chose, that you love, and that means something to you, even if the meaning is just that it makes you feel good.
If you’re thinking about getting a tattoo, here’s my advice: take your time picking the design, make sure it still resonates with you after a few weeks, and then go for it. You’ll know when you’re ready.
Thanks for tagging along and being part of this tattoo adventure. If you’ve been considering getting inked, I hope this gave you some insight and maybe the confidence to finally book that appointment.

Hobbies: Reading, Writing, and Painting
Favorite Book: Daisy Jones and the Six
Coffee Order: Iced Turtle Mocha
Favorite Movie: Everything Everywhere All at Once
Favorite Song: GodLight – Noah Kahan